Um I need some help, here’s a little background info. so hopefully you can give me some advice. I went to a private school until i was 13 and in 8th grade. i was one of the most popular girl in the school, had loads of friends, and was very happy. But then my parents got divorced and i had to move to a new school in a new, snotty, beach town in orange county (think laguna beach but worse). it has been 3 years since i moved. i only made one close friend but she ditched me. i feel like i have grown to become more mature than my peers and i am not interested in their dumb drama- who hooked up with who, etc. i really couldn’t care less. i don’t know how i’m going to handle this last year of highschool can anyone give me any tips? and my school is very cliquey. the people are so snobbish. i don’t know what to do. i get along so much better with adults. i feel like im a 30 year old trapped in a 16 year old right now it’s so frustrating what do i do?

Technorati Tags: 3 years, adults, beach town, laguna beach, orange county, parents, peers, popular girl, private school

Okay so I think my parents are getting divorced soon so these are my choices because my mum will want to move back to England (we had to move to California cause of my dads job)
Okay the first choice is to go back with my mum to England..I would loveeeeeeee that so much! But the thing is that if we move back we are probably going to be poor because my mum would have to work. But I would never feel homesick..
The second choice is to stay with my dad and he told me that if we would move from Orange County to Beverly Hills or Santa Monica (we are only living in the OC because my mum wanted too) and that would be so cool and I also would get as much money as I wanted..but I would still be homesick.
So what should I do?
Thanks

Technorati Tags: beverly hills, choices, dad, england, first choice, job, much money, orange county, parents, santa monica, second choice

I am 18 and I currently live with my grandmother. I live in a small town in south eastern Alaska. When I was 14 my parents divorced and my father moved to Juneau and I moved with my mom and brother to Irvine, CA. About a year ago I told my mom I wanted to move home to be with family and friends. I was homesick. And I felt as if I didn’t fit in with Orange County culture. I’m Alaskan! So I went to live with my grandmother. I was going to school but finished early this year. When I first moved back to Alaska we got along great and it was so nice to be back. But now all we do is fight. She told me the other day that she doesn’t trust me anymore because I lied to her once when she was visiting us in CA when I was 15. I’m gay but I wasn’t out at the time (I came out at 16) and I told her I was going to a girls house to do a project when I really was going to my boyfriends house. I don’t know why, but I told her the truth a few months ago, because I felt I could tell her anything. So she’s mad at me for something that happened years ago. And now she told some of the family she can’t trust me because she always thought I told her the truth about everything. Then she told me she’s giving me until the end of the month to find a job to pay board. Well there’s no work in this little town right now, but I’m trying my hardest. I’ve applied to 8 different places, it’s not my fault they’re not calling me. It takes time here because there are more people than jobs, but she doesn’t seem to understand. Now she’s getting after me to clean my room. But it is clean; I just have a lot of stuff, including a lot of clothes and not a lot of room. I feel like she treats me like a little kid. She yells all the time over everything. She also seems to hate my friends, which I don’t understand, because they’re all nice and respectful to her. She says my best friend Allie dresses like a slut and my other friends have pathetic lives. She also yells at me when I’m in town after dark because I might get beaten up for being gay. Well I’m a masculine guy and I work out and can take care of myself, and I’m usually with a group of friends and everyone that’s younger knows me, so how could that happen?! She’s always calling my father and stepmother names and telling me how horrible they are, which bugs me. But if I stick up for them she yells even more. She tells me that my parents should have sent her money to take care of me, which they didn’t, and that’s not my fault. I was a kid. Although my father did send me 0 sometimes to buy myself some stuff. Everything about me seems to bother her. She’s hates my clothes. She hates my hair. She hates that I take a lot of time in the bathroom in the morning. She gets mad at me because I don’t agree with everything she says or believes in. She gets mad because I seem to get along with my aunt more than her (which is because my aunt listens to me). She gets mad because she says I don’t do enough around the house. But I tell her I will do anything she wants, just to ask and I’ll do it. I can’t read minds! She’s always telling me to go back to California and live with my mother because she can’t put up with me. I don’t know what to do. How can I fix this? I want the relationship I used to have with my grandmother. Or should I just go back to California even though I feel as if I don’t fit in there? What do I do? Thanks for your time. –Jordan-

Technorati Tags: best friend, boyfriends, brother, clothes, different places, dresses, eastern alaska, family and friends, girls, grandmother, irvine ca, job, jobs, little kid, mom, orange county, parents, pathetic lives, slut, truth about

Um I need some help, here’s a little background info. so hopefully you can give me some advice. I went to a private school until i was 13 and in 8th grade. i was one of the most popular girl in the school, had loads of friends, and was very happy. But then my parents got divorced and i had to move to a new school in a new, snotty, beach town in orange county (think laguna beach but worse). it has been 3 years since i moved. i only made one close friend but she ditched me. i feel like i have grown to become more mature than my peers and i am not interested in their dumb drama- who hooked up with who, etc. i really couldn’t care less. i don’t know how i’m going to handle this last year of highschool can anyone give me any tips? and my school is very cliquey. the people are so snobbish. i don’t know what to do. i get along so much better with adults. i feel like im a 30 year old trapped in a 16 year old right now it’s so frustrating what do i do?

Technorati Tags: 3 years, adults, beach town, laguna beach, orange county, parents, peers, popular girl, private school

wife doesn’t believe me. says i need medicine. in part i have poor coping here 8 yrs. made no friends tried firefighting visited the issue about moving and i did not make it happen. I have a hard time doing stuff it is hot and all the things i used to do where i lived before aren’t down here. i am irritable. I work outside in the heat doing plumbing and she is in an office at a job she wanted from a young age. which is great i know were both tired after work but i actually hate it tried many other pursuits emt in orange county service plumber in riverside tried to get into paramedic school not enough room for everybody i actually have the letter stating that. she believes O.C. is a place i would love ummm i grew up out there and i told her i hate the crowds i hate the traffic i hate the attitude of the people here we bought a house in a town i thought if i put roots down with an investment i could focus on really trying. well even though she signed the paperwork. well now all her family except her mom has moved out of state. she tells me that i need pills to make me like living here. i can’t emotionally stand 1 leaving my kids i went through a divorce and 2. i love her but i have a difficult time hiding my miss Match with this place we have moved around the surrounding areas a few times. i also would consider myself an equal (not to good for house chores) to the point that the outside of our house is hideous and the car repair is not good.

Technorati Tags: attitude, car repair, crowds, divorce, firefighting, hard time, house chores, job, letter stating that, medicine, miss match, mom, orange county, paperwork, pills, plumbing, roots, service plumber, traffic

well after my wife slammed our 7 month puppy to the ground (she is not even 3 lbs! wtf) during a small fight, her foot is now broken. We took her to the emergency vet and the vet said it was a metacarpal fracture and Orthopaedics surgery is not required.
However, I’d like a second opinion and I don’t care how much it is going to cost if it’s to get her fully healthy and functional (I may get a divorce soon so this puppy will be all I got).
Any one with experience with kind of injury before?
Or someone can give me a list of orthopaedic clinics for pets around Southern California/Orange County so I can visit them and get a second opinion?

Thank you so much. The puppy means a lot to me

Technorati Tags: 3 lbs, divorce, emergency vet, metacarpal fracture, orange county, orthopaedic clinics, pets, puppy, second opinion, southern california

California – My wife and I are going through a divorce, trying to reach an agreement regarding custody, financial obligations.

One of my main concerns is for her to be granted Primary Custodial Parent rights, because I fear that she would move out of the county or, worse, out of the state and take my two boys with her. Currently, I have my boys over 50 percent of the time.

My question is this: can something be stated in the Marital Settlement Agreement that states that the Primary Custodial Parent does not have right to leave…say…Orange County…without authorization from the other parent. Has anyone had any experience with this kind of arrangement?

Please! Need help!

Technorati Tags: custodial parent rights, divorce, financial obligations, marital settlement agreement, orange county, two boys

Ok long story short…

My mom wants to divorce my dad, but we are flat broke so we cant really afford anything. Well i was wondering if anyone know any family legal aid services in Orlando,FL (orange county) that is able to help my family (my mom and the 3 of us, kids)?

Technorati Tags: dad, legal aid services, mom, orange county, orlando fl

An Orange county man and his wife were married for 18 years until their divorce in 2004. During this time, they owned and managed a real estate company together. 18 years and 2 children later, the husband has accepted his former wife as a lesbian, and that she was moving in with her new lover.

In the process of the divorce, he agreed to pay ,250 per month in alimony. She did not, however, reveal that she and her new lover were now registered as domestic partners.

Should this man still have to pay alimony?

Is this a case of the wife wanting her ,250 per month cake and GETTING to eat it, too?

Do you think it has an impact on the gay rights/marriage issues when a person enters a same-sex relationship while still reaping rewards of their marriage?

Regards,
Rock E. Horror
kayer_fire: So, you stance is that as long as congress is against gay marriage, the husband (in this case) should have to be financially held accountable for their decision, even though HE IS accepting of his ex- wife’s new relationship?
This took place in Orange County here in Southern California; one of the few states to recognize same-sex relationships on ANY level.
LOL… No. I’m not the husband.

Technorati Tags: 18 years, alimony, california one, congress, county man, divorce, domestic partners, gay marriage, gay rights, horror, marriage, marriage issues, new lover, orange county, real estate company, rewards, same sex relationship, same sex relationships, southern california

I have terrible credit and want to buy a house…my credit is due to my divorce 3 years ago…I have brought it up from a 250 to 611…..I am working hard on bringing it up more but we are so cramped in my apartment and I can only afford so much like 1200 a month that’s it…i live in southern california near orange county please help

Technorati Tags: 3 years, apartment, divorce, orange county, southern california