My sister is married to a defense attorning yeah i understand that this is his job and they need to make a house payment, BUT people are born with commen sence they should use it. He went to court and questioned my cousin in court against her while she was on the stand being grulled in court my sister( attorney’s wife) sat on the oppistie side while her cousin had to talk about a horrible crime to a close person in her life. my brother in law is helping out a murderer and trying to make it look like my cousin is a liar i dont really care that her husband is doing this but my sister , once my best friend, is being very defensive to her family i dont know why she cant see how this is wrong how do i explain this to a stubburn women yeah you should support your husband i get that but come on sitting on the side of the murderer of some one you dont know over your cousin balling her eyes out talking about a horrible crime knowing they are quitly . I can t just stay out of this any more she has excluded her whole family for pointless things and now this what do i do i want my sister in my life but how do we get pasted this!!! I NEED ADVICE PLEASEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Ok my mom is getting divorced tomrrow.This will be the secound time shes being divoced.
When she comes back after the divorce she is going to be VERY upset.
What are some things my brother and i can do for her that day?

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Sorry I put this in the beauty and style catergory, I just know that this is apopular catergory so people would read this. I really need help and if you could help me, I would love it.

Hi My name is Jessie and I am 13 years old. I live with my older 14 year old brother "Bob" and mother "Ann". (Not really their names). We are currently living in a terrible and tiny town home. We have no backyard and we have two dogs that really NEED one. We have annoying and loud neighbors who frequently throw parties at midnight and wake everybody around them up, and we are getting blamed for dog feces lying around, which isn’t from our dogs. We are paying way too much for this place! Its honestly a Hell-Hole and I don’t know how my mother puts up with it. She just got a divorce, and the divorce caused my mother, my brother, and I to move out here. We ran out of money so this is all we could find. Anyway, My mother is into one story houses with a pool, nice yard, nice sized house, etc. If she’s into that type of housing, what are we doing here? My question is this: I really want to move to Temecula because my aunt, cousin, uncle, and baby cousin live out there. It has a nice climate, nice school district, (Not saying my current one isn’t swell), nice houses, CHEAPER houses, (and I mean CHEAPER! Hundreds of thousands and millions of dollars cheaper), but there’s no beach in Temecula. I love the beach and so does my mother and brother, but we would only live approximately 45-one hour away from it. We are currently living in Southern California (Not giving out exactly where) and I HATE it! Yeah sure, parts of it are super nice and sunny, but it’s too expensive! My mother isn’t sure if we are going to buy or rent something out in Temecula, IF we move there. I really want to move there and I think it will be in our best interest if we do. How should I convince my mother and brother to actually want to move to Temecula? It’s really nice, and it’s cheap. Also, can you give me websites that show houses for sale and for rent? Besides craigslist please. I search everyday for homes for sale or rent in Temecula and show my mother, but she just says, "Yeah, it’s nice." What is that supposed to me? She says she likes it, so why not do anything about it? It annoys me a lot. Also, if you could give me links to any houses for sale or for rent in Temecula only! Not Menifee, Hemet, Murrieta, etc. JUST Temecula. That would be great! If we got something for rent, this is the price range: ,000-,000 a month
If we were to buy something, this is the price range:0,000-300,000
I appreciate it so much and I apologize for this long explination. If you are not going to help me, then please don’t answer this. Thank you so very much!
The number of bedrooms: Minimum:2 Maximum: Anything, really!
The Number of Bathrooms: Minimum: 2 Maximum: Anything Really
Pool or no pool: Prefered, but not necessary
Huge yard: Obviously prefered, but probably not going to happen so any type of yard is fine.
One-five stories tall: It doesn’t matter how many stories it is.
If it is NOT in Temecula, then it won’t help. The area’s in Temecula we like are: Wolf Creek, Temeku Hills, Redhawk, Promenade, and many more. They just don’t all come to mind right now. I appreciate it so much and thank you again!

~Jessie

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60 something year old woman takes care of her brother who has the functionality of a 2 year old all of his life, he is in his 60s as well. Their mother is now ill with Alzheimer’s and she is now having to take care of her mom. Her mom owns the house in which they all live and controls the money and the entire estate. 60 something year old woman also has 2 sisters who do not help at all but have power of atty. over their mom. If mom goes to a nursing home what can this lady do to continue to take care of her brother and live survive herself as well? Can she get a lawyer and sue? If mom goes to nursing home do they, the nursing home, not get the house and bank account? It is getting impossible to take care of the old lady, she is getting violent and threatens to kick her out of the house every day. The sisters will not have her declared incompetent yet they offer nothing to help. Any suggestions?

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My brother is married to a woman in Pennsylvania and he is stationed in Kentucky. He just got the papers in the mail a few days ago stating that the divorce was taking affect. He didn’t have to sign anything or send them back. Can anyone tell me how long it will be until the divorce is final or what he could do to speed it up?

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my parents ALWAYS fight over the stupidest things…like this night they fought -screaming fighting- at eachother because they couldnt decide on what to watch on tv……my mom does get annoying when she repeats herself but my dad is the worst,,, she’ll try to tell him about her day and he says COME ON GET ON WITH IT or I JUST DONT CARE……and he is never a gentleman….but hes sometimes funny……….i hate the fights and i wish they would just divorce because it would be easier on me and my brother….marriage with fighting is way worse then divorce with peace right??? help me out

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Well i am 16 turniing 17 in October and I live in Southern California. I am responsible for myself and just want to be independent already. I am tired of living in California and I want to move to Nevada. My mother cannot because she is getting divorced and since my brother is still young they don’t let her move. Through my whole life ive been pretty unhappy; My family was never really a family because we never went out together or did normal things a typical family does and well that has kind of traumatized me. I am also tired of being told what to do and it makes me feel trapped and imprisoned and i can’t take it anymore. I was so unhappy i tried to kill myself two weeks ago but after than I realized that is not a solution to my problems. I know my mom loves me but I am simply not happy anymore. I also have a boyfriend that I have been with for over 3 years and since I tried to kill myself she is trying to separate both of us and won’t let me see him; she say I have to wait until I am 18. I see no difference I mean what’s the difference between now and 18? She says I can be with him just not see him. So i’m really tired of this because I just want to be happy and independent; make my own money, buy my own things ect. So how can I get emancipated and move to a different state because this is confusing me.

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I had to leave california after a 5 year stay due to losing my fortune 500 job then moved back home temporary to Mississippi and this state sure does SUCK & is nothing like the "city of angeles".I had two jobs and was loving it because I kept money on me.I have received unemployment for about a year now due to the bad economy and I wanna get back to work and my best friend is pushing me to move to Atlanta but he is married and I am divorced and my wife and step kids are in Their home state of California.Is the economy better in Atlanta or is it true that Atlanta is Highly over rated like I was told In California.I just left from a tour in Atlanta and to be honest;That place feels just like being in Mississippi with all the trees and No sandy beaches,palm trees or mountains.I made .00 an hour in California with my two jobs added together.Is the money good in Atlanta as I work with Copiers and Fax Machines.All I saw in the ATL was alot of Tranny’s.Please help me decide because My brother is in L.A. as I speak and he told me that California was at ROCK BOTTOM and that Atlanta was not ranked as high as they once was.

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My brother’s illegal Mexican wife will not allow him to see his own daughter, and this is killing him, he doesn’t have enough money to hire a lawyer so i was wondering how i can obtain pro bono work to make this happen.

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I am 18 and I currently live with my grandmother. I live in a small town in south eastern Alaska. When I was 14 my parents divorced and my father moved to Juneau and I moved with my mom and brother to Irvine, CA. About a year ago I told my mom I wanted to move home to be with family and friends. I was homesick. And I felt as if I didn’t fit in with Orange County culture. I’m Alaskan! So I went to live with my grandmother. I was going to school but finished early this year. When I first moved back to Alaska we got along great and it was so nice to be back. But now all we do is fight. She told me the other day that she doesn’t trust me anymore because I lied to her once when she was visiting us in CA when I was 15. I’m gay but I wasn’t out at the time (I came out at 16) and I told her I was going to a girls house to do a project when I really was going to my boyfriends house. I don’t know why, but I told her the truth a few months ago, because I felt I could tell her anything. So she’s mad at me for something that happened years ago. And now she told some of the family she can’t trust me because she always thought I told her the truth about everything. Then she told me she’s giving me until the end of the month to find a job to pay board. Well there’s no work in this little town right now, but I’m trying my hardest. I’ve applied to 8 different places, it’s not my fault they’re not calling me. It takes time here because there are more people than jobs, but she doesn’t seem to understand. Now she’s getting after me to clean my room. But it is clean; I just have a lot of stuff, including a lot of clothes and not a lot of room. I feel like she treats me like a little kid. She yells all the time over everything. She also seems to hate my friends, which I don’t understand, because they’re all nice and respectful to her. She says my best friend Allie dresses like a slut and my other friends have pathetic lives. She also yells at me when I’m in town after dark because I might get beaten up for being gay. Well I’m a masculine guy and I work out and can take care of myself, and I’m usually with a group of friends and everyone that’s younger knows me, so how could that happen?! She’s always calling my father and stepmother names and telling me how horrible they are, which bugs me. But if I stick up for them she yells even more. She tells me that my parents should have sent her money to take care of me, which they didn’t, and that’s not my fault. I was a kid. Although my father did send me 0 sometimes to buy myself some stuff. Everything about me seems to bother her. She’s hates my clothes. She hates my hair. She hates that I take a lot of time in the bathroom in the morning. She gets mad at me because I don’t agree with everything she says or believes in. She gets mad because I seem to get along with my aunt more than her (which is because my aunt listens to me). She gets mad because she says I don’t do enough around the house. But I tell her I will do anything she wants, just to ask and I’ll do it. I can’t read minds! She’s always telling me to go back to California and live with my mother because she can’t put up with me. I don’t know what to do. How can I fix this? I want the relationship I used to have with my grandmother. Or should I just go back to California even though I feel as if I don’t fit in there? What do I do? Thanks for your time. –Jordan-

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