I have no friends anymore?
Um I need some help, here’s a little background info. so hopefully you can give me some advice. I went to a private school until i was 13 and in 8th grade. i was one of the most popular girl in the school, had loads of friends, and was very happy. But then my parents got divorced and i had to move to a new school in a new, snotty, beach town in orange county (think laguna beach but worse). it has been 3 years since i moved. i only made one close friend but she ditched me. i feel like i have grown to become more mature than my peers and i am not interested in their dumb drama- who hooked up with who, etc. i really couldn’t care less. i don’t know how i’m going to handle this last year of highschool can anyone give me any tips? and my school is very cliquey. the people are so snobbish. i don’t know what to do. i get along so much better with adults. i feel like im a 30 year old trapped in a 16 year old right now it’s so frustrating what do i do?
One Response
Ross F
23 Jan 2010
if you want friends that much just do things they do and dont squabble if you dont want to do it, if they start smoking and drinking then you should probibly do so yourself but in moderation, like throw it up later (where they cant hear you) and/or something and drown your alcohol in a lot of mixer, and dont drag the cigarette too much. In around 6 months of that palava you will find friends of the friends and advance up a level and may find a better social circle who dont do that business of drinking and smoking or just plain squabbling about things your not interested in. but you gotta spend a little to make a little. get your first foot on the rung, if your parents catch you just blame them on getting divorced so you wont get in trouble (or at least too much) by the time your in your 20′s things should be better with high class frinds not just the bad people you hung around with in the beginning, just be cool and dont think about conciquences for 6 months, and always remember even when you progress to better friends you still gotta do what they do (like go to the coffee shop or whatever you kids do now). just dot get uncool half way through they crappy friends or you may not get better friends through their links in the future. It may seem selfish but i swear i would have done it now in my wiseness instead of being the reject in school. also a part time job may get you friends.