divorcE……?

do you agree on divorce? why or why not?

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DiVoRcE…..?

my boyfriend’s parent just told him
tht they’re getting a divorce.
what can i do to ease his pain?
serious answers plz!

5 stars 4 best answer!!
*parents

sorry..

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Revision of Motion? WA family law question?

On May 4, 2010, we had a hearing for Modification of Support and motion for back support and atty fees (her motion) and a Motion for Reimbursement of overpaid daycare (our motion).
Support was revised as incomes had changed and 2 years had past.
Our Motion for reimbursement was granted in the amount of 7
Her motion for atty fees and back support was denied.
On May 14 they filed a Motion to Revise Commissioner’s Ruling and Notice to Appear (6/10/10).
They are citing RCW 2.24.050 and LR 0.7.(Spokane County Superior Court, WA) Their grounds for this motion are that mom feels like shes being punished because the judge retro’d the daycare but refused the back support. And that their discovery findings were ignored. And states that no child support worksheets were filed with the last amendment of the previous order so they were for all intent and purposes potentially invalid pursuant to the statue. Which is 1/2 right and 1/2 wrong. the last hearing was a contempt motion, which revised the temp child support order in place, adding the daycare to the transfer payment. although, no child support worksheets were filed at that hearing, but they were filed 2 months prior when that same order was amended due to a tax exemption discrepancy. the prior order has been a temp child support order since feb 2008, we began modification and finalization of this order in march 2010 as mother refused every attempt we made to finalize this order.
So….my question is What exactly do I file in response to this?
Do I file a Motion to Deny? Just a declaration? I cant find any local court instructions, rules or forms that tell me what it is I file in response?
I know I am running out of time to file a response so any help would be appreciated. We are pro-se going against a very shady lawyer who knows all the loop holes and knows how to manipulate and take advantage of pro-se people.

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DIvorce…………..?

I got married in july 2005 and we fight all the time. I just cant continue to feel bad anymore over stupid crap. we got married in nevada but we live in california. How do i file for divorce or do Ihave to file for legal seperation

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Legal Advice Please Family Law?

I am going to write this in my boyfriends point of view to make it easier understood.
I plan on getting a lawyer, but hoping this can help till I get in to see one. It’s been racking my brain.

SITUATION
About two weeks ago, my ex called me up and told me that she was going to drop my daughter off at DCF if I didn’t come and get her cause she no longer had a place to stay. I called my mother up (I am a truck driver and wouldn’t be back for about 4 more days) and asked her if she could go get my daughter. Well, my ex found money to bring her down and my mother gave her money to get back home (ex lives in Iowa, we live in Missouri). Well, my mother and step-father typed and printed out a temporary guardianship paper for my ex to sign. I have not seen it but it is so my mother and step father have temporary guardianship over my daughter and there is no date set for it to end. My ex signed it without reading it. My name is not on it. My ex and I were never married. I do pay child support, which was established in Illinois in 2003. There was no custody deal set up. The only thing that was set up was that neither of us could leave state with my daughter without permission from the other. Well, my ex did it anyway. Anyways, my mother seems to be pulling something squirrelly and I don’t know what it is. I went and got my daughters birth certificate, and she keeps trying to get it from me. She said that since she has temp custody, I can’t even get my daughter into school or take her to doctor cause she has custody, not me. I have been planning on fighting for my daughter for a while now, just been waiting to get out of the truck in order to do it. I am moving into my own place in a couple of days, and I am worried that my mother isn’t going to let me take my daughter.

QUESTIONS:
How legal is that temp guardianship thing that my mother had my ex sign?
Where am I on this whole deal?
If it is legal, how do I fight it?
I do plan on getting another job. It’s been my plan all along.
I do plan on getting another job. It’s been my plan all along.
I (the girlfriend) am staying out of this. He asked me to type this up for him since I type faster. I am just here for the emotional support. I have no plans on getting in the middle of it due to the fact that it is really none of my business.

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I am having family law issues ( I just have a short summary , I left out a lot of details but hope u can help)?

My husband and I have been together for 4 years and married for 1 year next month. My husband has a 9 year old son with his ex-wife and since me and my husband have been together he has only seen his son 3 times. Their divorce decree states that he get every other weekend. Everytime he would call to come pick up his son, his ex-wife would give an excuse. (i.e He is busy right now playing monopoly with his friends) My husband would get disappointed everytime and we know we have to get a lawyer to even get her for contempt or court and we dont have that kind of money. So my husband simply gave up knowing that when his son grew older that he would be able to explain why he was never around. Now what makes my husband and I upset is that he pays 8.00/mo with a 7.00/hour job in which he has recently put in a request to lower that but point is we r paying for a child that we dont even see so its more like a debt or fine, but recently we seen his ex-wife and son in the grocery store and she comes up and talks to him and they agree on letting my husband get his son for the weekend after valentines day weekend……so we exchange #’s. but the next night we get a call from her and shes crying to my husband telling him to come back to him and that she misses him and if he doesnt she’ll kill herself and so we just brush it off bc she was drunk and we thought she’d b over it soon. The next day she calls asking him to come over and bring her medicine and my husband blows her off but later she has his son call and have him go pick up his son to go get v-day cards for school. When we drop him off at home he gives my husband a letter that we find out his ex-wife wrote him and how she loves him and how having sex with him felt and a real detailed letter which makes me mad and its comin2 me that maybe she didnt let my hubby c his son bc she is obsessed with him and she constantly has his son call and ask for him to come over and visit him which all of a sudden has just started since wrote him that letter…? is——-#1 do i have a right to be mad? #2 what can i legally do to stop this? #3 How do i handle this?, if for one…I dont want to come between my husband and his son since now he’s getting to see and hear from him often

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Divorce…..?

Hi,
Lately I Have been wondering why people divorce eachother…and why there are so many unsuccessful relationships in the west.

I live in India and there are’nt many divorces here..My grandparents have been married for 60 years and are still happy,together.
My parents have been married for 30+ years and am sure they will stay together for the rest of their lives.
I am not saying these marriages are perfect.I have witnessed horrible fights .. But at the end of the day, one of them compromises.

Lately, divorces have become more frequent in India too.
Don’t you think our elders are setting a bad example for us..
I am 23 years old and am allready skeptical about marriage and I am sure a lot of people all over the world feel the same way..

Is there a way we can find a solution to this ??

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How do I handle a lawyer who is slow to respond to my questions?

I’m going through a divorce. My lawyer, a certified family law specialist, has been slow to my response. I emailed her, left message with staff for her to call me back, and it take her at least a week for her to respond. Is this usual? How should I handle such situation?

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divorce……?

My mom is thinking about getting a divorce from my dad in a couple of month. I don’t know what to think about it. I want her to get a divorce because my parents just don’t understand eachother, but then I feel guilty because I want my dad to leave. Have any of your parents ever gotten a divorce, and how did you handle it?

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someone familiar with family law..in Tx?

Hello,
I have a son 13 1/2 who moved in with me this year because my ex had trouble dealing with him. Manners, bad grades , drugs alcohol ect. He is doing better in school, i have him in boxing 4-5 days a week after so he is pretty active. Yesterday he went outside with his friends, drank some liquor and passed out. His friends called 911 and he went to the hospital 3x the legal limit. Now my ex is mad and wants him back. Her new man is rich and can afford any lawyer she wants. If we go to court is there any chance i can win? he made one mistake but everything else is good. He wants to be with me and not with her. He does not like her boy friend at ALL!! Give me some advice what to do? He was drinking and smoking pot with her so she cant say it started with me. They drug tested him and found only alcohol in his system. I think i will fight for him if i have to. He needs to know i am there for him but i am going against DEEP pockets!!!

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