I went through mediation. After 20 yrs of marriage. I was granted 1/4 of the 401K. It has been almost a year and I still have not received it. I have contacted my lawyer on several occations. Only once have I ever come face to face with my lawyer after I hired him. Before I hired him he seemed like the best guy for the job. After everything was said and done I was mistaken. He was awful and only allowed me to talk to his secretary and answered few of my e-mails.
Now I have received a letter from him stating that his job was done after I was granted the divorce.Since my ex is in contempt of court he would have to file again and if I wanted him to do that I could hire him for an additional 50.00.
My ex made really good money. I make about 18,000 a year and am due to receive 0 a month in alimony which is taking a year to receive per agreement from my lawyer. He said it was the best deal for me to receive even though my ex makes 3 times that amount of money and cheated on me during our 20 yr marriage. Our only child is considered an adult by law even though I still take care of her.
The only person I had to depend on to work for me was my lawyer and I know I was duped but I felt stupid when I told him I felt I was being treated unfairly and he said I should take the deal.
Is it true that he has no more responsibility to make sure I receive the 401K?
P.S. oh and my ex only had to pay 00. of my lawyer fees in 0 increments starting one year after the divorce was final. I had to pay 00. He also received all four vehicles including taking his own daughters car. My lawyer said there was nothing I could do about it because the judge wouldn’t make him leave it for her to pay off since it was in his name eventhough she paid for the down payment and paid all the car payments for over a year.
just in case you are wondering, I paid my own car payment for two years and never missed a payment…That was one of the cars he got too. Again my lawyer said there was nothing I could do.
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